Adult ADHD coaching online
Are you feeling scattered and overwhelmed? Do you struggle with time management and organisation? Do you want to calm the ADHD chaos? Are you ready to work with (rather than against) your unique, creative, neurodiverse brain?

Kia ora! Hello! I’m Steffi. Through my affordable online ADHD coaching sessions for adults, I help people like you get stuff done, enjoy life, gain confidence and value themselves.
I help my clients to study with ADHD with less stress, to make sense of their adult ADHD diagnosis, to grow skills in emotional regulation, to build ADHD-friendly time management strategies, to plan and complete projects, and to feel better about (and be kinder to) themselves.
You can book a free introductory chat with me, to talk about your ADHD support needs.
ADHD coaching
I offer ADHD support tailored to your unique needs and the specific outcomes you want in your life. ($95 NZD for 50 minute session)
I help people live well with adult ADHD. I also help people who don’t have an ADHD diagnosis, but relate to many ADHD-type challenges. You too can learn ADHD-friendly strategies to support your executive functioning, take care of big feelings, build healthy habits, start or finish projects, or manage your time.

ADHD tools

New: Your Adult ADHD Study Guide
You can download this guide to help you succeed in your studies!
Accountability sounds serious and cold and productive. I’m not any of these things. I won’t tell you off, kick your butt, or ‘hold you accountable’ in the classic sense. I will be honest with you, reflect back to you what you told me in the past, and encourage you. I’ll help you improve the supports you put in place that lead to you doing the things you want to do. In my experience, this is what truly helps people with ADHD-type brains to do what they want to do.
This is a way to help you manage adult ADHD overwhelm. It helps you to work out when you’re at risk of getting overwhelmed, to learn the signs that it’s happening, and to make a plan for what to do when you start getting overwhelmed. Then you can use that plan to cool your brain down, before you get too overwhelmed to be able to help yourself.
For me, being spaced out is like being tossed along in a sea of moments, without an anchor. This article will help you navigate your responsibilities on a spaced out day. This is something that can happen with adult ADHD, so let’s get some strategies to help!
Body doubling is an ADHD support strategy that helps you to do the things you’d usually avoid, by working at the same time as somebody else. Here’s how to body double, in person or online, including how to set it up, when to use it, how it works, and who you could try it with.
Getting started on a task can be hard when you have ADHD. Here’s some tips for getting started, and a tool that I use many times a day when I get stuck in procrastination.
“Perfection isn’t a prerequisite for self-trust… It’s consistency in another form: knowing that I do my best, learn from my mistakes, practice honesty, and pull through most of the time. Understanding my version of ADHD has transformed my ability to trust myself.”
Celebrating feels good! Feeling good increases motivation. This technique trains you to reward yourself frequently by celebrating throughout your day - naming what you did and choosing to feel good about it. This technique is especially useful for ADHDers who struggle with the idea of celebrating anything less than perfection.
A crucial part of adult ADHD time management is actually knowing what time it is. Time is something that we often need to have a sense of: it helps us to orient ourselves within our day. Is it time to get up, to get dinner ready, to get back to work, to start winding down? Who knows? I do, now, because of clocks.
Sometimes you have a little task you want to do...but you put it off day after day after day...and then when you finally do it, it takes 5 minutes, leaving you to wonder why you wasted all that energy feeling bad about procrastinating on it. Using this technique, I get to jump to the 'DONE' state on that task without even having to procrastinate for weeks!
Why do I use timers? Because they focus my brain, allow me to get started, and assure me that soon I’ll be able to stop if I want. They create a container that holds my attention, letting me move forward and keeping procrastination at bay. Here’s some ways to use timers to help adult ADHD.
For adult ADHDers, it's common to procrastinate on doing a task because it feels too difficult. (Or impossible, even.) But what if the problem isn't you or your character? Don't go changing. Change the task instead - find a way to make it easier!
This ADHD strategy review will help you to identify and to take action to improve the ways you manage your ADHD. This can be done across whatever areas of life that matter right now, from eating to medication to your work life. It's a simple, practical process that will help you make small changes to get big results over time.
If a task feels too difficult, it's probably because you haven't made it easy enough yet. If you have a desk/book/computer-based task that you want to do, and you're wanting a bit of extra oomph to get into it, a very simple way to help yourself is to go somewhere else to do it.
You can ‘get motivated’. Or you can make the task itself more motivating! To do this, we can add: Passion, Interest, Challenge, Keenness, Fun, Urgency, or Newness. This helps us to be more attracted to the task, and that makes the task easier to do.
Your ADHD superpowers are like having a big magic stash of cash money hidden under your bed. It’s only useful if you remember to use it! Once you know what your ADHD superpowers are, you can set things up so that they’ll be prompted into action.
Goals can go jump in the lake! ADHDers can support their executive functions through structure, motivation and positive emotion, so they can do what they want.
For adults with ADHD, it can be exhausting trying to remember all the things we want to do now, later, or at some point. The jot-down book helps you to support your executive functions through being an external aid to memory. It’s simple to run, and lets you feel more relaxed and less anxious. And it helps you to get the important things done!
Lots of people put themselves down when talking to others. In people with ADHD, this habit can be especially compulsive and brutal. Here’s a way to quit trash-talking yourself, which can help you feel better about yourself too.
They say that ADHD often isn’t a problem with KNOWING what to do; it’s a problem with actually DOING it. So technically that makes it a problem of knowing how to GET yourself to do what you want to do! Here are 4 steps that can help you to choose a new self-management strategy that will actually stick.
You can actively choose a mindset that serves you, using these practical steps. This helps you move past self-limiting beliefs and choose what you want in your life.
Here is a tool to help you when you’re struggling with the pressure and overwhelm of ADHD burnout. You can bring yourself back from the edge, and in this way let your nervous system recover more quickly.
When we’re wound up, we’re more at risk of self-destructive behaviours. Our ADHD symptoms are likely to get worse (including on the following days). And it just generally feels yuk. So what are some ADHD-friendly ways to cool down a nervous system?
By untangling The Knot, you can often overcome procrastination and move forward with complex tasks - and feel so much better.
Here are 10 creative lessons I learnt from watching RuPaul’s Drag Race (somewhat obsessively).
Finishing up a project and cleaning up afterwards can be hard for people with executive function challenges. Here are 6 tips to make it easier to get it done.
The to-do list is a powerful and simple organisational tool. If you struggle to make a to-do list work for you, here is a process I hope will help.
Testimonials
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Steffi has been so helpful and supportive. I learnt a lot about my ADHD, how to celebrate the positive parts, and mitigate the negative parts. Steffi is a great listener, very inclusive, and made me feel like I'm not broken, just different.
Stef Morison
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Steffi was an excellent coach and gave valuable strategies for helping with ADD challenges. I learned a lot and now feel happier with my "talents".
Jane Brownie
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Helped so much with my time management - I actually understand how to be on time now!
Helen Howell
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Steffi was able to give practical advice and tried and tested strategies to make living life with ADHD easier. Working with Steffi has brought about further self understanding and with that, greater self acceptance. I came away feeling heard and understood and like I had an increased toolkit for my personal and professional lives.
Ashlee Walters
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Steffi’s kind & gentle (& tbh also sometimes slightly hilarious) way of sharing her ideas & experience is helping me figure out new strategies for managing aspects of my life that have always been difficult - like money & sleep. I especially value how she’s my ND cheerleader, reminding me how far I’ve come but also holding me accountable whenever I need that 🩷
Kathy McVey
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Steffi always made me feel at ease and had a wealth of knowledge on useful strategies for coping with the effects of ADHD in my daily life (several of which have stuck and made a big difference for me). I really appreciated her friendly, non-judgmental style and felt like I was in very safe hands.
Olivia Tidswell
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I highly recommend Steffi Christie's coaching, I've gained practical tools and made significant progress with her sessions.
Carl Meyer
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Steffi is amazing to work with. She's got in-depth experience and understanding of how to work with our brains and get them to work for us. Coaching with Steffi has helped me face some really challenging fears, break through so many limiting beliefs, and establish new useful patterns. It has made a world of difference!
Isa Pearl Ritchie
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Steffi really helped me work through a project I'd been stuck on for a very long time. Very professional and friendly in her approach with lots of great tips and suggestions. Her ability to motivate and support is exceptional. Highly recommend.
Rachael Mason
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Steffi is as wise and insightful as they come. In my sessions with Steffi she has revealed her superpower! Steffi listens and understands very deeply and leaves me with some real practical steps to move forward and improve. Always uplifting and making it easier to believe in myself.
Craig McClure
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Often in the past, I may have gone off on a tangent and abandoned the work unfinished, then made excuses to myself about why, but having a plan of attack and setting goals to keep me on track really worked for me. Finishing something gave me a sense of accomplishment and a much-needed confidence boost.
Jo Williams
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Steffi you helped me so much! Such wise words and so intuitive...you’ll always be one of the main lifelines that helped me transition from stay-at-home mother for 10 years to fulfilling my creative dreams.
Kate Woodcock
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My sessions with Steffi were fun, inspiring and helped facilitate ideas into action. Together we formed a strategic plan with an attached timeline and our monthly meetings kept me accountable. Steffi is very supportive but was also able to challenge me when I needed it. My sessions with Steffi were super constructive and helpful.
Julia Christey
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Steffi was easy and fun to talk to, and was able to keep up with the sometimes complicated tangent I was on and give reasonable and logical feedback. Although it was a heavy topic for me Steffi made it an enjoyable process which I looked forward to.
Kathryn Engerbretson
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Steffi's skills are so diverse that she is able to take both my masters research, and work with people who have disability to the next level. I would definitely recommend Steffi as a support for both academic and professional roles.
Nicolina Newcombe
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Awesome lady, awesome service. Often it takes a lot for a man to reach out for help when things aren’t going as they should. I found Steffi to be supportive, empathetic and generally a good all round person. Steffi was able to identify things that were challenging me and assist in putting into place a plan to help me move forward in a positive way.
Albert Jans
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Steffi is very caring and respectful of her clients journey with ADHD. I am using many of her ideas and strategies to have a better lifestyle. My husband also finally understands why I do the things I do! Life is good :)
Louise Treweek
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I was a late diagnosis for ADHD which explained the great challenge I experienced with past academic tasks and planning ahead. Over the course of 6 sessions with Steffi they offered an extensive range of practical strategies that improved executive functioning and my ability to complete writing and revision. Their gentle, empathetic and non-judgmental approach meant I could feel comfortable sharing difficulties and be my authentic self.
Robert Keith
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I found Steffi to be knowledgeable about ADHD and she had useful strategy suggestions. She is kind and easy to talk to. I trusted her almost instantly. She genuinely wants to help and creates accountability without being forceful. I highly recommend her services.
Delia Middleton
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Steffi is an incredible person to talk to and truly meets you where you are at - her feedback and suggestions have made a world of difference, I am very grateful to her!
Sally Harper
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